Conflict • Sex • Intimacy • Communication • Affairs • Commitment
With Dr. Michael Radkowsky
Is Your Relationship in Trouble? Don’t Give Up.
I Can Help The Two of You Become Generous, Resilient Partners in a Strong, Loving Relationship.
Don’t feel bad or hopeless if you are struggling. We all begin our relationships with love, excitement, and the hope that we’ll have a great life together. We don’t anticipate how difficult it is, at times, to be a couple.
My aim as a couples therapist is to assist each of you to figure out how you can do your best in your relationship. When both people work toward this goal, relationships can thrive.
You may be fighting over seemingly small or petty issues that you know aren’t worth fighting about, and hoping that through couples therapy, you can communicate better, and find ways to stay calm rather than blowing up at each other. Maybe you can’t agree about some important issue, like whether to marry or have children, and are seeking to figure out how to come together.
Maybe your sex life isn’t what it was, or what you would like it to be, and you are hoping to make things better. Maybe one of you has had an affair, or trust has broken down between the two of you, and you hope that you can heal and come together again.
Perhaps you’re struggling over how to parent; who makes the decisions; or how the money should be spent…or not. You may be seeking couples counseling simply because you’re frustrated and scared about how hard it seems to get along with your partner and build a life together.
Or perhaps you’re feeling distant from each other and hoping to deepen your commitment.
I can help you achieve these goals.
I have a doctorate in clinical psychology; many years of specialized training in couples therapy; and many years of experience helping couples here in Washington DC. I am passionate about working with couples and I love helping couples transcend their difficulties and develop a strong, vibrant relationship.
These principles guide my work with couples:
- All relationships are challenging at times.
- The challenges you face in your relationship are opportunities to become closer, stronger, more caring, and more flexible.
- To be happily coupled, we all need to find ways to deal with the conflicts, differences, and disappointments that are inevitable in any relationship.
- I encourage each partner to figure out how you can do your best without waiting for your partner to make the first move. One positive step can be transformative.
- I will help you work on issues that may seem unsolvable or that you have been afraid to tackle.
- Changing the way you do things in your relationship can be scary even when you see the benefits. I will help you learn ways to calm yourself, so you can choose new behaviors that will lead to a stronger relationship.
I help couples with a wide variety of challenges, including
- Resolving conflict productively
- Communication: Finding the right words to talk
- Achieving a better sex life
- Premarital counseling
- Talking about important matters
- Improving trust
- Staying calm at difficult times
- Beginning a new relationship, and getting it right
- Enhancing an existing relationship
- Deepening commitment
- Resolving imbalances in money and power
- Improving teamwork
- Considering and planning for parenthood
- Parenting effectively
- Separating amicably
My therapy dog Aviv is often a soothing, unobtrusive presence in my sessions.
Check out my blog posts to get a sense of my work as a psychologist.
Read my advice column in the Washington Blade. Whether you’re an individual or partnered, gay or straight, living in Washington DC or beyond, you’re sure to find it helpful!